San Luis Travel on How dare you criticize me. How dare you presume to know anything about my marriage. How dare you drag our mother into it! You were the one, not me, she continued, who was always fighting with Mother over these exact issues. You were the one, not me, who insisted she was going to get married while she was still in school, even though Mother pleaded with you to wait. You were the one who fought with her all the time, who made her cry, who made her miserable. Just wait till you’ve finished law school, she kept saying. Don’s a nice man, but he won’t give you any room to grow. San Luis Travel 2016.